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Change is good: Looking to meet people with different interests.

friends4now

 More than a month ago

Basic Information

5' 5" - 165cm

286 lbs - 130 kg

Few extra pounds

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Extra Information

I like to cosplay at Ren Fests as a pirate. I've done a lot of theater, from acting to directing to designing. I have a lot of hobbies, including playing the ukulele, playing board and PC games, writing fantasy fiction, traveling, reading detective novels and gardening. I read tarot cards. I looove Korean sword fighting and Aussie Rules Football. Right now I'm going back to grad school while teaching special education with a focus on math, which keeps me chair and computer bound quite a bit and has led to a sizeable weight gain, much to my chagrin. I'm working on getting out more and exercising again, but time for that is limited right now. I'm developing a three-tier math curriculum for an Applied Math class that incorporates writing about real life situations and problems that involve math as well as developing group problem solving techniques and individual skill building. I want math to be fun, and I think the key to that is expanding kids' experiences with it. And maybe puppets ; ) I like to drive. Two sausage McMuffins and a large chocolate iced coffee is what I consider a power breakfast. I believe packing snacks for a long trip is an art form, and everywhere you go you should try at least one strange new junk food item. Buffalo wings and a beer or a bloody steak and an Amber Bock is my traditional "We defeated ignorance for another year and lived to tell the tale!" celebratory dinner. I'm a fairly private person. I'm not married, nor in a relationship, but I'm happy with that. I don't have kids, nor do I plan to-- it's not that I don't like kids, which would be bad, because I work with them almost every day, it's just that I feel the relationship thing should happen first; since it didn't, I'm good with that. I like pets, and was practically raised by dogs as a child. I kind of feel like TV and movies suck the creative juices out of a person if engaged in too much, so I try to avoid those things quite a bit, even though there are shows I enjoy from time to time. Truth be told, however, I don't have a lot of time for those things anyway-- life right now is a lot of essay and paper writing, rinse, lather, repeat. I consider myself a humanist and a non-denominational Christian; mainly, I like studying different beliefs and making up my mind for myself about what I do and do not believe.

I like meeting new people, especially people that I don't seem to have much in common with. I like hearing their take on life, what they like and don't like, what they see as true in the world. I like to hear about other people's hobbies, what they think is cool. Sometimes, it's fun to compare our differences as well as what we have in common. Because of my schedule, it's easiest to chat online. I like to hear about people's experiences, both the good and the bad. What makes you you? What are your answers to the infamous "36 Questions"?

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things you and I appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Tell your life story in as much detail but as briefly as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
22. Share five items you consider a positive characteristic in me, and I will share a total of five items back.
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
25. Make three true “we” statements about the two of us. For instance, “We both feel ... “
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
27. If you want to become a close friend with me, please share what would be important for me to know.
28. Tell me what you like about me; be very honest, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
31. Tell me something that you like about me already.
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
36. Share a personal problem and ask my advice on how I might handle it. Also, ask me to tell you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

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