We say 'yes' to someone only if we like him! Have you ever heard that a girl said yes to a guy's proposal if she doesn't like him and got married to him? It's never the case! That's why guys face so much rejection, because girls don't like someone that easily. And if you don't like this guy,please don't marry him, you will get yourself into a big compromise and you will also make his life miserable! If you don't like him, you won't like to hug or kiss him, having*****is still a far off thing, and being your husband, he will want to do all those things that will in-turn make you uncomfortable. So don't do that. It won't be a relationship for you, but just a compromise.And the second reason is - age gap! You guys have 9 years of age-difference. I'm not saying thatrelationships with age-gap don't work, you can take examples of Saif-Kareena and many other celebs who have good going relationships despite the age-gap, but they are celebs! They have very busy professional lives, they don't see each others for months, they also get in and out of many sexual innuendos very casually! While being normal people, we don't have the liberty to do that. Some regular people are also there who have huge age gap with their partners, but if you ever discuss their lives, you will see a lot of compromise and sacrifice for their partner (in many cases, not all certainly! Exceptions are always there!) With time, your choices will be different. He will want to have kids as he's approaching 40s, and he won't want to delay that.And you will want to enjoy your life for at least a year or two more! His views regarding life will be very different from yours.

it depends. What are you looking for in there?It's kind of a test, she probably knows you want to bang her, but want to know what you answer to see your congruence.I would answer the truth "I want to*****you rightup your dirty tight little***** hahaNo, actually I would say something like "You are funny, you seem cute and I like your sense of humor (or honesty, or sweetness or whatever she has that you like) I enjoy talking to you" then you could even escalate asking for her whatsapp or invite her to hang out.It doesn't matter really, be honest and don't be afraid to lose her.If you think about it the only thing important is that you get to meet her finally, you can't do anything online, so if you try and lose her, you didn't actually lose anything.I tried this with a girl I met online, we had kinda good vibe but I wanted to try some patterns I learned from Ross Jeffriess, to make her***** Iwanted to know if they worked online.I did and it did seem to work at some degree, butnot quite, until someday she said:Girl:I don't like when you talk like this with this kinda*****sexy vibe, I don't feel that way, and I don't feel like responding that way to you.Me:look I really enjoy talking to you, we were having a good time, but I'm a very sexual person and I talk like this, most girls really enjoy it, if youcan't, you don't have to answer to me the same way, I'm not asking that of you... but you have to understand that I can't change the way I am for you, I barely know you.Girl:... mmm I don't know what to say... ... ...!'m sorry, sometimes I think to much, I do enjoy talking to you (or something like that)The magic happened after this: On the following days she started talking to me a lot, suggesting we should meet, telling me personal stuff, talking about things we should do in the future and stuff like that.We finally met and we had a date, we didn't had*****on that date, but we kissed and snuggled a lot. It was the first date I got only by online gameand I enjoyed it a lot.