Well there are meetings and there are Dates. From business you all know first meetings are coffee, small talk and get a feel for the person to plot your next move.
Dates put two people in a communication conducive environment, close together, and they can actually evaluate without pressure their feelings for or against that person. Much better chance to get the ultimate ...another date...lol

Spontanaiety, fun, funny, cute, smart, romantic, sexy, has pazazzz, takes my breath awayand quite a bit more...unsaid stuff that only you can know in your gut.